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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

The Approach

Once again starting with my disclaimer lol .... This is just a thought of mine ... not "Gospel" ....

Yet another technique men have been trying to master for years and women have been sending mixed signals about ..... "The Approach". What works when approaching a young lady? Is timing important? Is location important? Appearance? Voice? Hygiene? Allow me to place my two cents .... well .... whole change bucket in this topic lol.

Some of the questions about approach has obvious answers like of course hygiene is important. You cant walk up to a female smelling like OMG! But what if I just got threw playing basketball or something and I just had to talk a certain young lady that walks by? Ladies, you can answer that one for me. Timing and location is also quite tricky. Is it ok to try and talk to a lady at church? What if that's the only time you see her? What about if she just got into an accident and you pulled over to help her? Would she think your a pig? Once again open questions for the ladies.

Now lets get right down to the good stuff. Things that I may have a personal sway to but I'll try and keep it as non bias as possible. What really works? Is the nice guy approach really hitting anymore? Is a simple hi my name is so and so good enough anymore? I don't think so. Ive notice by watching allot of situations..... 2 things seem to reign supreme. Comedy and flamboyance. If you can make a women smile your good. And for some reason if you can show that you want her but you really don't need her, your almost God!

How did pimps do it? Just a thought....

Appearance is a touchy subject matter. If your "decked down" in some really nice attire then of course automatically your turning heads. But is that always necessary? I can answer this one... still open to the ladies though of course. From personal experience and watching others... appearance sometimes is overrated. Basketball shorts and a t shirt(with holes) get looked over when your personality is on point. Confidence and unique swag is the formula. Simplicity seems to be getting tiring.

But to wrap this up. Ladies, what is working out there? How do you like for a guy to approach you? O and a bonus question. Why is it so wrong for you ladies to approach us guys?

Much love...

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